Maria Lynette Olive
Real people. Real clarity.
Real shifts in how dating feels.
These are people who were tired of guessing, overthinking, and settling.
After 32 years of marriage to my high school sweetheart, I found myself completely new to modern dating. Through this program, I experienced profound breakthroughs in understanding my worth and values. I learned how to communicate my needs confidently and identify compatibility quickly. A major breakthrough came when I realized my 'friends with benefits' situation, which I'd justified as a temporary placeholder, was actually preventing me from finding true connection. The program helped me see how settling for less was blocking my path to more. What sets this program apart is its practical, hands-on approach. Each week, I could implement what I learned and then discuss my real-world experiences, challenges, and victories. The personalized insights, affirmations, and guidance I received were truly invaluable - it wasn't just theory, but real transformation in action. I went from feeling lost to knowing exactly what I want and how to find it. Most importantly, I learned that someone can be great but not great for me - a realization that changed everything. This program isn't just about dating techniques; it's about personal growth and self-discovery. While it requires commitment to change, the benefits begin from week one.I've already recommended it to several friends because it works! -Mandy
Before joining Maria’s program, I struggled to attract the right type of partner and often overlooked red flags. This program completely changed my approach to dating by helping me refine my profile to attract men who are truly ready for commitment. I also gained a much clearer understanding of behaviors and patterns to watch out for. One of the biggest breakthroughs for me was the podcast Maria shared in Week 1—it was eye-opening and changed the way I view stress and relationships. It was so good I shared it with many people I care deeply about. Beyond that, the modules on confidence and femininity helped me feel more comfortable in my own skin, which has completely shifted how I show up in dating. I now focus on enjoying the moment rather than stressing about the outcome, and that has been a game changer! Maria provided incredible support, always available to help me think through challenges constructively. I’ve also realized that I deserve love exactly as I am—without needing to be "perfect" first. I would absolutely recommend this program! In just a few weeks, my mindset around dating and relationships has completely transformed. Just before ending the program I found a quality partner that is in alignment with my needs and desires and we are further evaluating each other and our long-term compatibility. If you're hesitant, I’d say give yourself the gift of a new perspective—you won’t regret it!
If dating always feels the same, it’s probably time to have a professional take a look. I came into this program already trying to see things from the other person’s side. I’ve always been open—but I was still stuck in the same cycle. The same patterns. And I wasn’t sure how to move forward with confidence. Around week three or four, something shifted. There was a moment where it all started to make sense. I got a new perspective—one that helped me see what I couldn’t see on my own. The podcasts, the conversations, the questions—it all helped. I realized that if someone is really looking for what I’m looking for, they won’t be scared off by intentionality. They’ll actually welcome it. I’m still working on confidence—that’s always been a bit of a battle—but now I have a better approach. Things are more defined. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m not afraid to ask the questions that matter. It’s just about knowing when and how to ask them. In the 6th week of this program I found a quality woman and I have more clarity than I ever have. My advice? If the dating area always feels the same, then maybe it’s not just them. Maybe there’s something you’re not seeing. And that’s where a coach really helps. Sometimes, you just need someone to help you uncover what’s been holding you back. Nike said it best—just do it.
After a 40+ year marriage, I wanted to find a partner who shared my mindset and values. Despite my health issues, I wasn't sure I could find someone understanding and loving. With Maria's coaching, I joined Upward and amazingly met Daniel within days. After 8 months we are now engaged to be married. I never thought I'd find someone who could love me and share my values for God. Maria's coaching gave me tools to be more direct and honest in relationships. The daily journaling, affirmations, and creating a clear vision of my ideal partner have helped tremendously. As a coach myself, I specifically chose Maria because I didn't know her, allowing me to be truly vulnerable. The coaching program has boosted my confidence immensely – I wouldn't have tried online dating without it. Maria adapts the program to individual needs, and I'm grateful for her guidance. She's a well-versed coach who I highly recommend.
Before this program, my dating experiences were chaotic. I stayed in relationships based on chemistry, ignored red flags, lost myself, and often felt anxious. I wasn’t communicating my values, beliefs, or boundaries—and I certainly wasn’t seeking clarity. I was operating from emotion, not intention. There was no clear path forward. That’s changed. I’ve experienced a complete mindset shift. I’m more confident and grounded. I now approach dating with calm logic instead of emotional reactivity. I say no to misaligned connections. I prioritize both my present and future self. Seeking clarity—instead of spiraling in overthinking—has been a game changer. I’m finally comfortable being alone. Because I know now that the wrong relationship will never give me the peace, joy, or growth I truly want. I’ve learned to stay grounded and true to myself. Everything feels different—like I’ve taken the red pill in The Matrix and finally see things for what they are. I feel a core confidence and resilience. My loneliness no longer crashes over me the way it used to. I understand now: what’s not for me is just as important as what is. I no longer chase—I choose. My advice? Stay grounded, calm, and resilient. Lead with logic when your emotions try to take over. Find your peace. Protect your joy. Let go of anything that threatens it. You have you—and that’s powerful. This program is one of the best investments you can make in yourself. You’ll explore your patterns, identify your values, set healthy boundaries, develop discernment, and learn to seek true alignment—from a place of confidence and peace.
I have been single for 12 years since my divorce and was feeling frustrated about the experience and my lack of success in finding an amazing partner that was committed to the same things I am! I felt confident in my capabilities - so why couldn’t I be successful here??Maria is a perfect teacher and mentor and it’s incredible how information and self reflection given that new information can shift everything! Last weekend, at Maria’s encouragement I am trying new things, new places, etc. Quite organically, I ended up meeting a man of the higher caliber that I have often said doesn’t exist in this town! 😂. We had an interesting conversation about our lives, our families and our goals for this year. In the context of my armed-with-information freshly opened eyes to a more intelligent, confident process of meeting men, I have to say it was one of the best initial experiences of the last 12 years! Amazing shift!The truth is, he may or may not be a right person for me - but the freedom and empowerment I feel to now understand the process and exercise educated discernment takes the stress away! It leaves both of us free to actually enjoy each other’s company and have fun!I HIGHLY RECOMMEND this course to anyone that wants to get off the unconscious path of continuing to attract and date the wrong people. Maria is a loving, compassionate angel that can walk you to a place of empowerment, freedom and joy in the process… and I believe that is the energetic place where magic is possible.
Before this program, I was performing on dates—being who I thought they wanted me to be instead of my authentic self. It was exhausting and never led to real connection. Through Maria’s coaching, I learned to slow down, lead with my values, set and hold boundaries, and stop managing other people’s feelings. My biggest breakthroughs were realizing my worth, stopping the habit of “pre-rejecting” myself, and embracing the me I truly am. About halfway through the program, I met a high-quality man, and we’ve been building and exploring our long-term compatibility ever since. Now, I see myself through eyes that love and choose me, and I have a deep sense of peace and joy. This work has not only transformed my dating life but also how I connect with my family, friends, colleagues, and God. It’s worth it 110%—life-changing in every way.
One of my biggest challenges was a belief that there just wasn't anyone out there for me. I already had a love story once and that might just be all that life was going to offer me. I felt defeated and hopeless. This program helped me realize that relationships and finding someone is really all about intentionality. I think the self work that you have to do in this program is absolutely priceless! It forces you to uncover so much about your values and what it is you are actually looking for in a mate. It forces you to ask the hard questions and not rely on someone else to answer them for you! Initially, I was worried that I was going to regret spending all this money and not feeling like I learned or discovered anything new! Having now completed this program I have zero regrets and think this process has been priceless! I felt like Maria was available to process and help me navigate things whenever I needed her! I think I have a confidence now that constantly reminds me that I have all that it takes to navigate relationships and dating successfully! Not perfectly but successfully! I would encourage those considering Maria’s program to be brave and just take the risk! It forces you to pause and take the time to do the work on yourself. I think this program has helped me redefine who I am and be confident in standing on that foundation. I ultimately believe that I met my partner because of this program.
I had different thoughts and visions scattered in my mind of my values, deal breakers, triggers, etc. This program helped me get clarification and organize my thoughts. I already knew that my past affected me, but really breaking down my fears helped me realize where they were coming from. The program helped me remember my value and therefore helped me with my confidence about future relationships and the importance of holding my boundaries.The support and guidance was key in being able to open up and be vulnerable. The non-judgmental advice and questions for clarification made it easier to speak openly. I gained clarification in what I am looking for in a man and relationship.
I joined this program to learn from my past relationships and build confidence in myself. One of my biggest breakthroughs was realizing I can be confident no matter how I think the world sees me. My outlook on dating has completely changed. I now believe there are good people out there, and I feel more hopeful and grounded moving forward. I hesitated at first, but choosing to invest in myself changed how I show up — in dating, friendships, and life. The program was well structured, practical, and supportive, and I feel more confident trusting my instincts and navigating dating with clarity. I would absolutely recommend it.
Before this program, I struggled with recognizing my values and setting boundaries. The most impactful lesson was learning about 'one more time' - a mindset that's helped me persevere not just in dating, but in all areas of my life.A major breakthrough was identifying and overcoming my scarcity mindset. Now, I refuse to settle just to be in a relationship. The program equipped me with tools to identify what I truly want and need, and the confidence to voice these needs to potential partners.Recently, I felt empowered to decline a connection with someone who wasn't aligned with my relationship goals - something I wouldn't have done before. The comprehensive support, including podcasts and practical activities, helped me develop a clearer vision of my worth and what I bring to the table.Since completing the program, I've noticed a significant change in who I'm attracting and how I communicate my needs. For anyone hesitant about joining - I was completely lost before, but now I have the clarity and confidence to pursue the relationship I deserve.
Before joining this program, I struggled with getting clear on what I truly wanted in a partner, recognizing my own self-worth, and setting boundaries with men who weren’t serious. I often found myself unsure of how to respond to unacceptable behavior, which questions to ask early on, and how to confidently walk away when needed.Through this program, I gained clarity, built confidence, and learned how to approach relationships with intention. The deep work, insightful podcasts, and structured guidance completely transformed my mindset. I now know what I want, how to ask the right questions, and when to move on from a situation that doesn’t serve me.Beyond relationships, this program helped me communicate my thoughts, desires, and boundaries in all areas of my life. I now recommend it to anyone truly ready to do the work because it WILL change the way you date—and the way you see yourself.
Before joining this program, I wasn’t actively seeking a partner—I was just hoping the right person would come along. Through this experience, I learned how to intentionally invest in attracting the right relationship instead of waiting for it to happen.One of my biggest breakthroughs was when Maria helped me refine my dating profile to attract the kind of person I truly desire. That moment gave me so much clarity!I now understand what I need in a relationship, what a man needs, and how to set healthy boundaries. I’ve gained confidence, clarity, and practical tools that will serve me in both dating and life.Beyond relationships, this program helped me improve my self-worth, time management, and even my business growth. The weekly support and deep conversations made all the difference.I highly recommend this program to anyone who is serious about finding love and willing to do the work. If you’re unsure, I’d say—just meet with Maria. You’ll know if this is the right next step for you!
Before joining the program, I had pretty much given up on finding a partner. Dating felt discouraging and fruitless — I was stuck in patterns that weren’t leading anywhere, and I wasn’t even sure what I truly needed in a partner anymore. But this program completely shifted that. One of the biggest breakthroughs for me was getting help with my dating profile — how to present myself authentically and initiate conversations that actually lead somewhere. I also gained powerful clarity around my non-negotiables, like realizing I need someone with more flexibility in their schedule — not just someone available on weekends. Maria’s guidance was amazing. She gave me thoughtful insight into the men I was meeting, helped me navigate tricky situations with confidence, and always made me feel supported without judgment. She met me where I was and helped me grow from there. Today, I feel hopeful. I feel intentional. And I feel confident. That’s something I never thought I’d say about dating again.To anyone hesitant about joining: you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. This work doesn’t just help you find love — it helps you rediscover your own worth.
Before joining Maria’s program, I struggled with a scarcity mindset. Deep down, I didn’t really believe there were quality men out there — and that belief was holding me back. While that mindset doesn’t shift overnight, I’ve now started building a healthier perspective… and more importantly, I’ve learned to move on from misaligned people much faster than I used to. One of the biggest breakthroughs I had was realizing how much time I used to give to the wrong people — just hoping something would change. This program helped me see that alignment really matters, and that letting go sooner is actually a form of self-respect. I trust myself more now. I see clearly why my past relationship didn’t work, and I feel validated in my decision to leave an unhealthy marriage. That kind of clarity and confidence is priceless. The most transformative parts of the program for me were learning about boundaries and redefining what healthy feminine energy looks like. These were areas I always struggled with — but now, I’m showing up in dating with more confidence and self-assurance than I’ve ever had.Maria’s support was wonderful, especially her insight around my dating experiences and helping me process them. I would absolutely recommend this program to anyone who's new to personal development, or stepping back into dating after being single for a long time. If you’re hesitant, just know this: you get what you give. You can grow through every experience if you stay open to the process. This program has even helped me outside of dating — the mindset work alone has improved my self-worth and reduced my anxiety in ways I didn’t expect.
Maria doesn’t mess around! I didn’t think I’d learn anything new—but surprise! I came away with powerful new skills, insights, and clarity. Before coaching, I hadn’t really been dating. By week 6, I was putting those skills into practice with someone who shared my values. Because of Maria’s guidance, I knew how to communicate, set boundaries, and recognize alignment. I’m bolder and braver now—asking for clarity, leaning into the big, hard questions, and using what I’ve learned to pause, breathe, and respond with intention. I’ve realized that change is an inescapable fact of life, and denying it comes at a great cost. The difference is, now I get to decide what I want my change to look like
Before coaching, my dating life was frustrating — the same patterns kept repeating. I’d end up with men who lacked real intentions, just wanted sex, or were simply filling a void. Through this program, I’ve learned to set boundaries, recognize my red flag triggers, and stop allowing people to disrespect me. I know what I bring to the table and what I’m looking for in return. My confidence has grown in saying no, voicing my opinion, and walking away when I’m not heard. I’ve become quick to “push the next button” when something doesn’t feel right, and I’m clear on the emotional and physical safety I require in a relationship. I’m learning to use my expectations as a filter, confirming if someone is truly in alignment with my values and goals — and not changing myself just to make a relationship work. If you need to dig deeper into yourself to figure out what you really want and what you will and won’t tolerate, I highly recommend this program. It helps you recognize the trauma patterns holding you back and teaches you how to regulate through them so you can move forward into healthy, intentional relationships.
Maria is very caring and knowledgeable in coaching. She really cares for her clients and she always has solid advice and insightful conversations prepared for sessions. She also checks up on you in between and offers advice. She’s amazing!!
I was feeling frustrated and wandering blindly through the apps, thinking I knew what I wanted-but I really didn’t. Working with Maria changed everything. Through her program, I learned how to have real conversations about values and communicate what matters most to me. It sounds simple, but it wasn’t something I’d ever done before. Now, I have the confidence to ask the tough questions early on and walk away when something doesn’t align. This experience didn’t just transform my dating life — it helped me understand my boundaries, recognize how past trauma was quietly influencing my choices, and stop abandoning my own needs to please others. Most of all, I’ve learned that my peace and my desires matter. Maria was always there with wisdom and guidance when I needed it, and this program has been truly life-changing.
Before working with Maria, I felt lost and detached in the dating world—clinging to people who weren’t right for me. Through her coaching, I learned my worth and the boundaries I will never bend. I no longer ignore red flags. I ask for clarity without accusing, and I pay close attention to whether someone’s values align with mine. I’m at peace in dating now—no longer searching just to fill a void. I only allow relationships that bring emotional safety, honesty, peace, and healthy communication into my life. I’m worthy, I’m confident, and I only align with what’s truly right for me.
This is the training I needed at 19 — it should be taught in college. Before working with Maria, I was stuck on the sidelines of dating — watching from a distance, judging others, and struggling to feel fully confident in myself. Through her coaching, I found clarity, peace, and validation from someone who truly understands the emotional side of dating. Maria helped me face my pre-dating fears, unpack past setbacks, and find new solutions that allowed me to finally move forward. The weekly face-to-face coaching, paired with daily prep work and journaling, gave me the focus and structure my ADHD brain needed to see real results. Now, I’m more confident, informed, and at peace — even when things don’t work out, I know I’ve shown up as my best self. Investing in this program was the best decision I’ve made for my emotional future. This isn’t just teaching you how to date correctly — it’s the kind of life training every young woman should get before love, marriage, or heartbreak ever begin.
Before working with Maria, I felt discouraged and taken advantage of — constantly questioning myself after being gaslighted in past relationships. Through this program, I learned how to find clarity, honor my morals and values, and confidently let go of anyone who doesn’t align with them. I’ve experienced what emotional safety truly feels like, and for the first time, I’m at peace knowing I am worthy of the kind of love I desire-and I don’t have to settle for less. This program has been powerful in helping me understand and course-correct the behaviors that once led me toward the wrong people-not just in dating, but in friendships too. It’s been a healing journey that’s brought me back to myself.
Before working with Maria, I was honestly anxious about even starting to date again. I kept putting it off because I didn’t want to deal with the disappointment and confusion anymore. But through this coaching process, everything shifted. I gained a complete mindset reset. I’m so much clearer about what truly matters to me, what my core wants, and what I will never settle for again. My boundaries are stronger, my values are defined, and for the first time in a long time, I feel confident in myself. Maria helped me see my worth in a way I hadn’t before. I no longer push dating aside — I show up knowing exactly who I am and what I deserve. And the biggest breakthrough of all? Realizing I can’t and won’t go back to the old version of me. This program changed the way I show up in my dating life — and in myself.
Before this program, I didn’t date much, but I realized I often stayed in relationships that weren’t aligned because I was afraid to be alone. Dating usually meant feeling chemistry and then trying to make it work — even when it wasn’t right. Through this program, I gained clarity on what truly matters to me in a partner and learned how to become the kind of partner I want to be. I became someone I genuinely love and respect. Most importantly, I learned what peace feels like in a relationship — and how different that is from chaos. By Week 5 of the program, I met a high-quality partner who aligns with my values — something I don’t believe would have happened without this work. I’m more confident now, I know I’m worthy of a healthy relationship, and I trust myself to recognize red flags. This experience taught me to stay true to my values, not settle, and remember that finding your true self is always worth it.
Before the program, I had only been on a few dates and was feeling discouraged. Based on what I was seeing, it felt like there were no decent men out there. This program gave me clarity around what I’m truly looking for and helped me define my values in a partner. I was reminded that I am worthy of a healthy relationship and learned to trust myself, God, and His timing. I also learned how to ask better vetting questions early, understand people’s intentions, and prioritize emotional safety. As I worked through the program, I felt more at peace, more relaxed, and more confident being myself. I no longer feel the need to perform or carry conversations. I’ve learned to move at a pace that feels right for me and trust that the right person will be drawn to who I truly am. Through this process, I’ve gained clarity, confidence, and a deeper understanding of what I value and what I bring into a relationship. It helped me grow into someone who is ready for real, healthy connection.
When I decided I was ready to step back into dating, I felt everything at once—excited, anxious, nervous, and deeply skeptical. I truly believed I was ready… turns out, I wasn’t. Like so many others, I joined the apps. At the same time, I started following Maria, and her conversations hit differently. She spoke directly to how it feels to be a mature adult trying to find real love in today’s dating world. It felt honest. It felt relevant. It felt like someone finally got it. Taking the leap to schedule a call with her changed everything. What sold me wasn’t a promise of “the perfect man.” It was the idea of investing in myself—and the guarantee that I would walk away as a stronger, clearer version of me. Someone who no longer waited to be chosen, but confidently chose who aligned with my values. For the first time, I’m fully comfortable standing by my top three non-negotiables—and I don’t feel insecure about them anymore. No matter what. Looks, money, status, or “potential” no longer distract me. What matters now is real integrity—shown consistently and authentically. Thank you, Maria. You guided me to an even better version of myself. And stay tuned… my partner is out there, and when we find each other, our relationship will be epic.
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When I first started working with Maria, I was discouraged and honestly ready to give up on dating. I truly believed something was wrong with me and that love just wasn’t meant to happen. Maria completely shifted that narrative. She didn’t just give me tools for dating — she helped me see strengths in myself I didn’t even realize were there. She helped me separate what was within my control from what was never mine to carry, and that clarity alone lifted an enormous weight. With her guidance, encouragement, and deep insight, I began to feel hopeful again. Maria doesn’t just coach — she genuinely believes in you. Having her in my corner has been truly life-changing.
Before Maria’s program, I found myself consistently disappointed in dating. I was focusing on potential instead of alignment and repeating familiar patterns — showing up with "wife energy" without actually being in a committed partnership. What changed everything was clarity. I’m now confident in my own value. I’m confident asking direct, clarity-based questions. And for the first time, I’ve experienced emotional safety — and I know how to recognize it when it’s present. One of the biggest mindset shifts for me was learning to ask, "Is he the right guy for me?" instead of constantly wondering if I was good enough or the right fit for someone else. That alone changed how I date and how I show up. This program was so much more than it appeared on the surface. What I learned about myself over eight weeks was eye-opening and will carry into other areas of my life as well. Maria is truly there for you every step of the way. I didn’t overthink joining — I trusted the process and just went for it. I have no regrets. Maria is incredible, and her program is just as powerful.
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